Online Pauses and Silence: Chronemic Expectancy Violations in Written Computer-Mediated Communication
Kalman & Rafaeli (2011) · Communication Research, 38(1)
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What it found
When managers judged job candidates who answered an email after a day, two weeks, or not at all, the same delay was read differently depending on the candidate's standing — the pause took its meaning from what the reader already thought of the sender.
What it does not show
Managers rating job candidates over email, with delays of a day, two weeks, and silence beyond a month. It shows the effect of a delay depends on the sender's standing with the reader. It says nothing about texting between people who are attracted to each other.
And where we carry it further
Managers and job candidates over email, not two people who like each other. What transfers is only that a delay has no fixed meaning; the reader gives it one.
Where we rely on it
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