Couples' Shared Participation in Novel and Arousing Activities and Experienced Relationship Quality
Aron, Norman, Aron, McKenna & Heyman (2000) · Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 78(2)
Relied on in 4 places across the academy · 2 stated limits
What it found
In three experiments, couples randomly assigned to a novel and arousing seven-minute task together reported higher relationship quality afterwards than those given a mundane task.
Across a survey, a door-to-door study and three experiments, couples who took part in novel and arousing activities together reported higher relationship quality; the correlation was mediated by relationship boredom.
Couples who took part in a novel and arousing activity together reported higher relationship quality than those given a mundane one, with boredom mediating the effect.
What it does not show
Self-reported relationship quality, and the experimental part is a short laboratory task rather than a shared evening.
And where we carry it further
Studied in established couples, not friendships. We are borrowing the mechanism, not claiming the result.
Studied in established couples doing lab tasks. That a specific, unusual meal beats a generic drink is our extension, not their result.
Where we rely on it
4 places in the academy. If this paper turned out to be wrong, this is the list that would have to change. Some of the instructions below are part of Gold; none of the findings are.
In the curriculum · 3
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